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You cant be happy in relationship if you are unhappy with yourself

# 1  04/09/2013 09:54

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I've come to the conclusion that you need to be truly happy with yourself before you can make someone else happy. What do you think about it? I think this is the reason why there are a lot of unhealthy relationships. A lot of people aren't really happy with their lives or themselves so they end up settling for anything that comes along to feel some sort of "Happiness". Thoughts?

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# 2  04/09/2013 10:07

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I agree. I've seen unhappy people dive head long into relationships, thinking they've found the missing piece of their puzzle, only to wake up to the ugly truth that their partner is not the cure-all once the honeymoon period is over.

# 3  05/09/2013 08:47

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Alot of people settle in unhappy relationships too. Some would probably rather be miserable than alone

# 4  08/09/2013 09:36

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we all have our own "stuff" to deal with...some people handle it well, others don't. depends on their attitude. more cheerful people probably wouldn't want negative energy from their partner dampering their mood or spirit. so they'd split.