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Can You Love Someone And Cheat On Them?

# 76  02/09/2013 18:16

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it's called sex....people will always cheat on the ones they love for passion....they always have and always will.........internet porn maybe the amswer.........

# 77  05/09/2013 14:09

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I believe it is impossible. If you loved the person, you wouldn't cheat.

# 78  29/09/2013 00:53

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Well I'm still seeing my ex but I'm looking for someone.

# 79  03/11/2013 17:13

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There will always be temptation in relationships, but that love should outway that temptation.. Love is about honouring eachother.

# 80  11/11/2013 22:56

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Thing is we all see it differently and well all people are different in personality, sexual views and what they want.  To be honest we can love our heart out but how do we know the other is doing the same mmm curious if you are 100% certain your partner really loves you.  The answers many give here are therir vierws and they have nothing to do with what i believe and what I need and waht I want and what I wont in my world I can not always have.  I want love and have it!  I want sex with the woman I love and I dont experience it!  To say we are sexually incompatible is an nderstatement of course wasnt always true!  Plus you knwo what I want I want this woman I love to live  a long lif ewith me till I am old too - it sadly not going to happen.  I hate narrow minded preaching as because if you were inmy shoes you would see it a lot differently - I bet cheating is always a fun thought but it does your froiendships and head in totally I bet.  All of you have a LOVE-ly day.

# 81  02/01/2014 02:23

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peachy888 wrote:

Do you think it is possible to love your spouse and still be able to cheat on them? I know every situation is different and the reasons people cheat are variable but does cheating necessarily cancel out love?

it come down to trusting that person every time they leave you wonder what they are doing or who they are with yes you will never stop loving them but it trust and when that is gone your relationship will never be the same

# 82  03/02/2014 17:25

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kathy7777 wrote:

peachy888 wrote:

Do you think it is possible to love your spouse and still be able to cheat on them? I know every situation is different and the reasons people cheat are variable but does cheating necessarily cancel out love?

If you love someone why would you want to hurt them by doing this!

variety is the spice of life>>????   just saying :O)

# 83  03/02/2014 17:28

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wow peachy???????? if ur as sweet as a peach then u should know all these things?? by the way I dearly love peaches:O)~
:O)~(O:

# 84  07/02/2014 00:52

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NOPE!!!how can you love someone and then sleep with someone else? when you love a person you are giving your heart and

soul to that person. when you cheat on someone you feel guilty and that's because morally you know it was wrong of you to

do so. how can you give a person 100% of your love when your over her cheating on them. When you commit to one person

your giving your heart and soul to that person, your also promising this person you will only make love tho that person. If your

going to cheat on anyone then your no longer in love with that person although now it may be your lusting to have sex.

# 85  04/04/2014 23:00

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sunnystranger36 wrote:

peachy888 wrote:

Do you think it is possible to love your spouse and still be able to cheat on them? I know every situation is different and the reasons people cheat are variable but does cheating necessarily cancel out love?

Yes it's possible due to a breakdown of connection between the couple. The weaker partner cheats first as they are unable to accept their shortcomings they go into a bit of denial and some people have a fear of being alone so when there is trouble in a relationship rather than thrashing it out they just jump into a new one it's a horrible domino effect.

I feel the other reason people cheat is they are not getting there needs met at home. either there lover is to small in size or just dont have the sex drive the other one has but to me if you cheat. Your a low down dirt bag anyway

# 86  13/04/2014 23:10

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alex3865 wrote:

I think love goes hand in hand with respect.  If you cheat , you must seriously ask yourself the question,  do i really respect my partner so little? If the answer is yes, then you have no right being in a relationship with them!

Agreed.

# 87  20/04/2014 14:04

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peachy888 wrote:

Do you think it is possible to love your spouse and still be able to cheat on them? I know every situation is different and the reasons people cheat are variable but does cheating necessarily cancel out love?

I don't think so. Your love for your spouse will change & he will notice it. My ex bf was cheating on me. I knew something wasn't right. Then the B IM'd me on Facebook saying I know u but u don't know me. she knew he was seeing someone but didn't care. She kept me on IM for 5 hours. He was still staying with me but lying to me & her about his hours at work. She has went as far as put a stalking PO on me & I have not done anything to her what so ever. I got a lawyer, & he even lied himself about our relationship of 11 months. He said he just knew of me. I felt so hurt it took a while to get over it but I still have to go to court over their lies. I hope they get contempt of court & go to jail. She knew what she got because I knew what I had. I am done talking about it. I don't want to start crying again over this. Yesterday I finally started to feel better after a month. She is just jealous because he was still talking to me when he was seeing her. She hated it. So she went crazy & opened up her trap on facebook.  Don't cheat, it hurts everyone involved. Get out of your marriage before you start seeing anyone else.

# 88  21/04/2014 21:59

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those who cheat on people whom they "claim" to love do not seem to really know and understand love...they can never truly love anyone. they only think they can. and sorry to say, most of them belong in this category. and those who don't are definitely "deviating" from the average and have possibly lost hope in finding someone like themselves or will lose at some point in future if they don't find anyone who is as deviant as them and matches their idea of true love. sigh...

# 89  24/05/2014 21:29

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clevercat8 wrote:

alex3865 wrote:

I think love goes hand in hand with respect.  If you cheat , you must seriously ask yourself the question,  do i really respect my partner so little? If the answer is yes, then you have no right being in a relationship with them!

I totally agree with you,

I also agree

# 90  16/06/2014 10:59

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steel35744 wrote:

No, It Doesn't Cancel Out Love,Though It Does Cancel Out TRUST..Once That Is Broken ..In Most Cases,Love Will Fade...Oh By The Way This Is If You Get Caught!!!!

too true...

# 91  05/01/2015 16:00

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I'm not sure this is a difficult one. On the one hand cheating is a real betray of trust. On the other hand love is a real deep emotion and cheating could just be something that isn't actually emotionally important to some people. I know in the past this  http://www.datingallhours.com/tips-advi … rtner.aspx  which is an articles about suspecting a cheating partner has been useful and might be worth having a look at?

# 92  19/03/2015 13:33

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No should not cheat on people, especially if you love that person. I was cheated on and it can be heart breaking so a big NO from me.