TweetWe've teamed up with internationally recognised relationship therapist Trevor Silvester, to come up with a registration process that allows us to give you a psychological insight into your world, what makes sparks fly for you and other members of the site.
We don't want to try and take the fun out of dating by simply matching you with people, so based on your answers, what we want to do is to help you and the person who's interested in you have a great first date.
When you've registered we will provide you with your 'Swoon Appeal'. This will give you some insight into you that we hope you will find interesting. Then when you search through other dating profiles well give you some hints and tips on how to hit it off on a first date.
"Very like me - I learnt a few things about myself and why I'm sometimes misunderstood."
"I am surprised, but after giving my answers, you got it right. You got me off to a tee."
"I was quite surprised you got it so right what you said is so me! Well done."
"Phil was my match of the day, we met a week later and have been inseparable ever since. We had the most fabulous wedding d..." Read their story
"I emailed a girl from your website who lived in my area, I knew instantly from her photo that she was going to be good fun..." Read their story
"Daryll send me a wink and I replied even though he lived far away – I must have sensed something special about him! We tal..." Read their story
"Steve’s profile stood out to me because it seemed like he has a good sense of humour. When we finally met up it was insta..." Read their story
"Our good fortune is cherished every day, and our happiness has encouraged another family member to take the plunge, and tr..." Read their story
"I met Sue through your website, I was attracted to her looks and musical interests. Thankfully it was mutual attraction. ..." Read their story
"I knew as soon as our eyes met that I had met a very special person who I wanted to get to know more. The first date was ..." Read their story
"21 days ago today I sent Mark a message. He had a sensitive smile and looked like a really sincere man. A very fast and am..." Read their story
"Kellie and Dave had both been on our website for under a week when they discovered each other. Dave soon moved closer, an..." Read their story
"We both shared a passion for music, sailing and travelling and when we finally made contact we realised that we had both t..." Read their story
"The first time Michael and I met I knew it was going to be the start of something special. There was an instant attraction..." Read their story
"I never dreamed of finding the man of my dreams, who would love me as much as I loved him, but I did, and as the books say..." Read their story
"Ever since we first met we have been inseparable, we have never been happier and we are delighted to have set a wedding date." Read their story
"We are now inseparable and he spends every weekend with me. I had been a widower for a long time, and internet dating was ..." Read their story
"When we first met we were completely at ease and chatted like long lost friends. We soon decided that we wanted to be tog..." Read their story
"Darren contacted me on the site with a message and we chatted for a while. Then we met for lunch halfway between both our ..." Read their story
"After a few months of meeting we decided that we wanted to be together all of the time. We found a house that we both lov..." Read their story
"As soon as I saw him waiting for me I knew I was in trouble (in the best possible way!) he was gorgeous, and as our date p..." Read their story
Firstly you should take some time to enjoy being single. After the break-up of a long relationship, it can be almost frightening to be on your own. You're very used to having someone else there for your emotional, practical and financial needs.